I have received over the years, but especially at this time of year, calls and emails that go like this:
"I have been accepted ED at Columbia Business School. I am willing to lose my deposit and apply next year to HBS because I think that ED admissions to Columbia means I can get into Harvard."
"I have been accepted to MIT, but I really have my heart set on Stanford, where I was initially waitlisted and then rejected. What do you think about my rejecting MIT and applying next year to Stanford?"
I have been accepted to Chicago, but prefer Wharton because of Wharton's better brand...."
A few thoughts on the above scenarios:
- If the accepting top school supports your goals and provides an acceptable educational environment (and you shouldn't have applied if it didn't), then a bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Be happy about the outstanding school that accepted you and attend!
- Acceptance at one elite schools implies absolutely nothing about your chances of acceptance at another elite schools. Acceptance decisions are independent events. HBS will not check with CBS and couldn't care less that you were admitted ED at CBS.
What are legitimate reasons for attempting to defer or reject an offer of admission from a top school and reapply:
- Personal circumstances: Major illness in your family for example.
- A relationship issue: Your significant other is accepted at a one-year program in City A and you don't want to be apart for a year.
- Your goals have changed since you applied, and the accepting school no longer is the right one. (This is the least common reason.)
Here's a tip if you want to defer and are serious about attending the accepting school a year later: Offer to put down a large deposit that will be applied to your tuition when you matriculate and lost if you don't matriculate.
If I want to try out a new venture, is it possible to defer the school by 2 years? Any strategy for doing so?
Posted by: Mong | June 23, 2008 at 06:49 PM
It is extremely unlikely, bordering on impossible, that a school would be willing to defer for two years. If you want to wait two years, you probably need to respectfully decline the offer of admission with a brief explanation of your reason for doing so and reapply in two years.
Regards,
Linda Abraham
Posted by: Linda Abraham | June 23, 2008 at 09:20 PM
Linda,
Thanks for the the great blog and in particular this helpful post. I am applying to business school currently but think the odds that I will need to defer any acceptance are 50/50. Programs are, perhaps understandably, discrete regarding their deferral policies. In your experience if a program does not have an explicit "no deferrals" policy, then do they usually accept deferrals on a case-by-case basis? In other words, does silence on this matter usually indicate flexibility or that deferrals are absolutely not part of their process?
Thanks very much for your thoughts.
Posted by: applicant | November 11, 2009 at 09:51 AM
If they do not have an explicit "no deferral" policy they will consider deferrals on a case-by-case basis. But the reason for requesting the deferral has to be compelling and I strongly believe that offering to put down a large deposit that is non-refundable if you don't attend and applicable to tuition if you do, helps significantly. I know of no school that "usually accepts" deferral requests.
Best,
Linda
Best,
Linda
Posted by: Linda Abraham | November 11, 2009 at 10:59 AM
Dear Linda,
What kind of large deposit are we talking about? Will $500 suffice? Or $1000?
Thanks
Posted by: brian | March 08, 2011 at 05:34 PM
When I was talking about a "large" deposit, I meant something greater than $5000. I meant "large." It' supposed to show serious commitment. Most applicants would easily give up $500 and many even $1000 if something "better" comes along.
Best,
Linda
Posted by: Linda Abraham | March 09, 2011 at 03:03 PM